Is it possible to maintain differing viewpoints and, at the same time, not lose our human connection? This episode says it’s not only possible, it’s important and provides insights into how we can maintain these bonds.
When we use heart and mind to think through our relationships with our partners, spouses, children, and parents we can create richer and deeper connections. We are fully ourselves. It’s the art of living well.
Exercises
Remember a time when you interacted with a group of people without knowing their political views. Chose a positive experience. This could be a memory of a vacation, a work experience, or it could be from childhood.
- Split this group into two and arbitrarily assign each to opposing political parties. Would it be harder to play as enjoyably with this political knowledge?
- Would you interact as freely? Would you enjoy the group less?
Understanding another:
- How many people understand you … really understand you?
- How many understand you pretty well
- Do you wish people understood your better?
- Do you feel closer to those who understand you?
- How many people do you try to understand?
- How would you expand this?
- What would happen if by doing this?